Slushie has been de-escalating but still seems to try to intimidate the guy into grooming her. He seems to get more brave and unbothered. When free roaming he still seeks her proximity out despite the pressure ðŸ«
Generally dates are boring.
by angeofleak
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Let them negotiate!! It doesn’t seem like a lunge or any form of aggressive behaviour, but during these small spaces they also need to prove themselves to one another.
Of course if it turns violent then gently put something between them (not your arms or hands). We usually use a card board. It just resets stress levels and de escalates the situation by separating them.
You have to let them fight it out for a bit without intervention. One needs to be dominant over the other otherwise it will never work